How to wear and tie bow tie: the definitive guide

Choosing the right shirt for a bow tie

Not every shirt works with a bow tie—and knowing how to choose the right one is essential to achieving a balanced and elegant look. The harmony between the shirt and the bow tie lies in the details: collar shape, fabric quality, proportions, and even the texture all contribute to how well your accessory stands out.

The most recommended options include the classic spread collar, the Italian collar, and the wingtip collar—each offering the right space to showcase the bow tie knot without overpowering it. A button-down collar can also be a stylish alternative for more casual or contemporary outfits, creating a refined yet relaxed aesthetic.

When it comes to fabric, opt for high-quality dress shirts in smooth, crisp cotton. A clean, structured shirt enhances the silhouette of the bow tie, while heavy or wrinkled fabrics may compromise the overall elegance of the look.

Don't overlook color and contrast. A solid bow tie pairs well with patterned shirts, while a bold or printed bow tie is best matched with a neutral or monochrome shirt. In short, the right type of shirt doesn’t just support your bow tie—it completes your visual identity.

Whether you're preparing for formal events or aiming for a smart casual outfit, selecting the ideal shirt collar makes a real difference. The key is balance, intention, and a refined eye for detail.

How to tie a bow tie: a step-by-step tutorial

Mastering the art of tying a bow tie is more than a technical skill—it’s a refined ritual that elevates your style and sets you apart. Whether you're dressing for formal events or simply looking to enhance your personal wardrobe, knowing how to tie a bow tie is an essential detail every gentleman should embrace.

There are two main options available: pre-tied bow ties, perfect for those seeking convenience and a polished finish, and self-tie bow ties, which offer a touch of authenticity and charm through their slightly imperfect symmetry. Both have their place, but a hand-tied bow tie tells a different story—one of tradition, craftsmanship, and individuality.

How to tie a bow tie in five simple steps:

1. Drape the bow tie around your neck, one side slightly longer than the other.
2. Cross the longer end over the shorter end and pull it up through the neck loop.
3. Form the front loop of the bow tie with the shorter end, holding it in place at the collar.
4. Fold the longer end back over the center of the front loop.
5. Pull the folded part through the loop behind the front bow and adjust the knot symmetrically.

Don’t worry if it’s not perfectly even—its subtle asymmetry is part of its charm. In fact, this nuance adds personality and elegance, making your look more distinctive and authentic.

Whether you choose a pre-tied version or enjoy the satisfaction of tying it yourself, the bow tie remains one of the most expressive accessories in a gentleman’s wardrobe.

At BRUCLE, every bow tie is crafted to honor this ritual—handmade in Italy with high-quality fabrics, tailored finishes, and timeless style.

How to match a bow tie with your shirt and outfit

Pairing your bow tie with the right shirt and outfit is the key to creating a balanced, elegant, and confident look. Whether you’re dressing for a black tie gala or a daytime celebration, the art lies in matching textures, colors, and patterns in a refined way.

For black tie events, nothing beats the timeless elegance of a black bow tie paired with a crisp white dress shirt and a classic tuxedo. This combination honors tradition while exuding understated sophistication.

If you want to add a touch of personality, consider bold patterns like subtle polka dots, fine geometric shapes, or abstract motifs. Just remember: when your bow tie carries a strong visual identity, your shirt should remain neutral to maintain balance and harmony.

On the other hand, if you’re wearing a printed or striped shirt, opt for a solid color bow tie that complements one of the hues in your outfit. This creates a cohesive yet refined combination.

For daytime formal events or weddings, choose bow ties in colors like navy, burgundy, or champagne. They offer a sophisticated contrast when paired with light grey or beige suits and add warmth without being overpowering.

For a more casual yet elegant vibe, pair your bow tie with a button-down collar shirt and an unstructured blazer. It’s the perfect formula for semi-formal gatherings, garden parties, or stylish business-casual looks.

Finally, don’t forget the details: a matching pocket square or cufflinks can enhance the overall look and showcase your attention to style.

Why choose a high-quality, handcrafted bow tie

Choosing a high-quality bow tie means choosing timeless elegance. Unlike mass-produced accessories, a handcrafted bow tie offers refined textures, perfect structure, and a unique personality that reflects true style.

Made with care using fine fabrics like silk, cotton, or velvet, a wide range of bow ties allows you to find the ideal match for formal events, weddings, or elegant evenings.

And if you want something truly distinctive, a custom bow tie can become your personal signature—crafted to match your taste, your look, and your story.

At BRUCLE, every bow tie is handmade in Italy to celebrate quality, tradition, and individuality.

Final thoughts: elegance is in the details

Wearing a bow tie is more than a style choice—it’s a refined gesture that speaks of identity, care, and character. It’s not just about how to wear a bow tie, but why you choose to.

From the bow tie outfit you build to the way you tie it, every detail matters. True elegance lies in intention—and in the quality you wear.

Discover BRUCLE's collection: where tradition meets design, and every bow tie becomes your signature detail.